I am constantly trying to look for opportunities for improvement or better ways to maximize my time. While I’m at work I do a lot of monotonous tasks but, listening to my audiobooks makes them a whole lot more tolerable. Its a great opportunity to enrich my thoughts and reflect on what I’ve listened to. Last week I began listening to my audiobook The E Myth Revisited. Why Most Small Businesses Don’t Work and What to Do About It. Which I bought semi impulsively because I know that this world has so much more to offer. Unlimited possibilities yet only limited by the walls that I build myself by not believing in my own potential. That stops now. I know that with the right mindset and determination anything is possible.
On a side note, just to be real with myself. Writing about hopes and dreams gives me some serious anxiety because part of me constantly is playing the devils advocate. This is good and bad. It’s good because it is a type of security; I would hate to get myself into a difficult situation unequipped. But it’s also bad because at times it can be much more like my own personal guard of limitations. I’m desperately trying to break this barrier, and start to move my life into action.
I just want to take a moment and tell myself some positive affirmations.
I am better than I am right now because I am still learning who I am.
There are many paths to get to where I am going and when I pause to think about the trail I tread, I will not stop, I will continue ahead.
Today I started to read Dale Carnegie’s combined book, How to Win Friends and Influence People and How to Stop Worrying and Start Living. I was fortunate enough to have time to read during the day because the Neurologist I had an appointment with took some extra time with the patient before me. That aside, I’m trying to look on the bright side and remind myself that at least nothing serious is wrong with me and I got to read some good stuff!
Within the first few pages of the book, the author provides nine suggestions to get the most out of the book. This is exactly what I want to read first. When I read self-improvement books, one of the first things I want to do is skim back through the book and make a list of the tools provided and how to better apply them in my everyday life.
If I want growth in my life, I must have a strong desire for improvement, accountability and action.
Both of these books have talked about a self reflection and I’m going to continue doing these every couple days. This is my life. This is my action. I’m really excited for what my future holds.
Notable Actions:
- Today I took a few moment to self reflect and ground my thoughts. When I was feeling frustrated I immediately began deep breathing exercises and positive affirmations.
- I’m actually reading!!!! I’m so happy that I’ve been blessed with curiosity and that now I am developing the habit of action to satisfy my curiosity.
Opportunities for Action:(I swear I could find a million of these)
- I could be drinking more water. I forgot my water bottle at home and drank a lot of tea at work. Tonight I’ll place my water bottle in my purse so that I can’t forget it. Although I usually take it out to reorganize my purse before I leave, which is what caused me to forget it at home. I think tomorrow during breakfast I’ll remind my daughter, Aaliyah, the importance of being hydrated and propose we both help keep each other accountable for drinking water. This works awesomely! Nothing like asking a six year old to remind you to be healthy. I say this in a very non-sarcastic way. We are literally hardwired for relationship and accountability. I’ll try and touch more on this when I respond to the book, Hold Me Tight. This book prompted hours of research and reading neuroscience articles to verify that our body and mind is literally wired for love. (Hey speaking of, I need to add a book called, Wired For Love, to my book list.)
- Today is Wednesday, which I’ve termed, “Washy Wednesday,” in hopes that I would begin doing laundry on a scheduled time… I did one load and it’s still in the dryer. Can my improvement be, burn my clothes and never do laundry again? Or buy clothes made from asbestos so that I can just burn the whole thing like Romans used to do with their napkins? (I love this idea, if only it weren’t such a safety hazard.) They prized asbestos for it’s flame retardation and used it to make napkins. When their napkins were dirty, they threw them into a fire to clean off the impurities. This fun little fact stayed with me because I have always secretly wanted to just burn my clothes instead of washing them. I missed Washy Wednesday again and I guess it’s not a secret anymore that I fantasize about safely burning my clothes. Sometimes I’d rather go to a laundry mat and read.
I’ll get back to this, “opportunity for improvement” another time. I’m proud of the progress I’m making in other areas and excited to work on the wellbeing of my body and mind.
Life is Lovely 